ANGRY HUSBAND W/ OLDER SON?

this is not right have you talked to your husband about this? did he tell you why he is this way with the oldest? give him a choice tell him if you can not treat both boys with the respect they deserve then i will have no choice but to leave you. dont call him out infront of the kids this will just cause them to think they can talk to their dad the same way causing more problems. when you see him glare at your son stand up asap and ask him to go to the kitchen with you ask him (away from the kids) why are you glaring at ___ like you hve been? give him a chance to answer then tell him he needs to stop if non of this work and you cannot get him to see what he is doing wrong and how it is not ok you have no choice but to leave. you might not have to leave for to long in order for it to snap him back were he wants to chancge. if you do not leave then you are harming your some and he will grow up with anger and resentment twords his dad and you for not stopping it. if you seperate go to counceling as a family if you still want it to work. if that doesnt work then i would not alow him to see either boy unless he can treat them both equaly with respect. good luck hope this helped